It’s no secret that the more time and effort you put into developing a skill, the faster you can achieve greatness! For karate students in Bolton and Caledon, finding motivation to practice at home after a long day at school or the dojo can sometimes be a challenge.
Here are three simple steps to help your child develop a positive inner dialogue when motivation is lacking. These steps will also guide you in using a psychological trick that makes practice feel like their own idea!
Step 1: Ask About Their ONE Most Important Goal in Karate
Start the conversation by asking your child to think about their top goal in karate. You might hear answers like “to have fun,” “to see my friends,” “to get my belt,” or even “I don’t know.” The key here is to ask specifically for the ONE thing they want to GET out of karate. These keywords, “ONE” and “GET,” are powerful motivators:
- “ONE” helps them prioritize and focus on what they truly value.
- “GET” directs them toward a tangible goal or reward, like earning their next belt.
Encouraging this mindset can spark motivation for their karate journey.
Step 2: Ask Them to Describe How They’ll Feel When They Achieve It
This step is crucial. Our aim is to help them emotionally connect with their goal. We know they want to achieve something in karate, but can they imagine the pride, satisfaction, and sense of accomplishment they’ll feel when they reach it? Getting them to visualize these feelings can trigger the brain’s “feel-good” hormones, reinforcing their commitment to karate and drawing them closer to their goal.
Step 3: If There Was ONE Thing You Could Do Right Now to Move Closer to Your Goal, What Would It Be?
This is the closer! Ask them what one thing they could do right now to help them achieve their karate goal. It might be a small task or a big effort—either way, the goal is to get them thinking about actionable steps. For younger children, you may need to guide them or offer suggestions. Adding a time frame (e.g., “RIGHT NOW”) helps create momentum and encourages them to take immediate action, whether it’s practicing a kata, perfecting a technique, or focusing on a specific skill.
Try using these steps and see how the conversation goes! Not only will these tips help keep them motivated in karate, but they may also come in handy for other tasks, like homework!
We’d love to hear how these steps work for you. Feel free to share your experiences!
Sincerely,
Mr. Jason